Let me start off with a story, a story of a freshmen boy who
was working on a paper for his English 104 class. The boy was writing an
annotated bibliography on female doctors in the early 1900’s. It was during
this time that the boy made a startling revelation about himself, he was a
feminist. The revelation was so surprising that he said it out loud to a room
full of peers. Several audible gasps were released, he couldn't be a feminist!
He was a boy and feminist had a rap for being unreasonable and extreme! The boy
was shunned, never to be heard from again.
It’s time to come clean my friends, that boy was me. Okay…so
I wasn't shunned and I don’t think there were several gasps heard throughout
the room. I get a little dramatic sometimes. The point of the story is that people
did treat my new found feminist perspective as a bad thing. Like I had jumped into
some irrational cult or something, or I was claiming something crazy. I thought my respect for women's rights would be a good thing. Nope. Feminism
is treated as a devil term and I’m not sure why.
I don’t find it unreasonable to think that men and women
should be equally. We are raised in a society where equality is praised but
women still make less money than men on the hour. It astounds me that women are
still fighting for their right to their own bodies when we as a culture have
come so far.
I don’t think men have it easy either. For every woman that
is being objectified on screen, there is man who is getting exactly the same
treatment. Men are one of two very simple stereotypes, the doting husband or
the suave playboy bachelor. Men have to be insensitive and brave or else they
are perceived as un masculine.
I think women and men both have it bad in our modern
society. That’s why I consider myself a feminist. I want equality for both
genders. That’s what I think modern feminism entails, a belief that we as
humans are all entitled to equal treatment. The word feminism suggest a break
away from our overly masculine culture, not just for the benefit of women but
for the benefit of society as a whole.
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